I'm totally into my boyfriend. His smile won me over. When he took off his shirt it sealed the deal. When he took off his pants, it was a big womp-womp. He's tiny downstairs and it's a turn off. How should I make it better?
Sounds like it was a little womp-womp.
Find a bigger man. Or tighten up your receiving areas. There are plenty of things we can change about our bodies but the dingle is pretty much set in stone -- save for some devices that stretch your armstrong.
The thing about this personal attack on him is it’s not his fault. It’s on you. Or in you. Or whatever. This isn’t something you can say to a partner, “I’d really like if you would…” because there ain’t nothin’ he can do 'bout it.
How does he feel about his man business? Is he happy with what he’s packing? The good thing is a guy knows when he’s small. Small guys aren’t going around thinking they’re huge just as fat people aren’t going around telling themselves they’re skinny. They know.
While sex is important, how strong is the relationship if dingle size can make or break it? There are other activities in which you can partake. There are also buyable items that can be introduced. And depending on how open your communication is, there’s nothing wrong with making a joke of it while also complimenting him on how he does please you -- with it or not.
If sex is taken too seriously, it loses its fun. If sex is playful and silly, then half the fun is before the boom-boom starts. If you just want to quickly get down to business and swap juices, how strong of a relationship is it? You’re really just describing a hit-it-and-quit-it booty call.
It’s not your partner’s responsibility to get you off. Remember that. Your partner’s role is to help with it but at the end of the day, it’s your body. If you can’t achieve orgasm, would you blame your partner? Sometimes your body does what it will – or won’t. You can’t blame your partner for you not getting off. We’re all old enough to know what works for us. If your partner strikes out every now and then, you can take matters into your own hands. Yeah, I said it.
Grow up, size queen.