My partner likes listening to our neighbors having sex and I think it's creepy. He gets turned on by it but I think it's weird.
Are they hot though? Why only listen? No visuals? Wait, focus, focus.
This brings up so many questions. Are you in an apartment? Is it the house next door? If so, how loud are they? If it sounds really good, ask if they want an audience! Clearly they’re cool with people knowing what’s going on.
In all seriousness, I’d say this is similar to a partner watching porn. One is eye stimulation and the other is ear. There’s no difference otherwise. Are you cool with your partner watching porn or is that “creepy”?
Or, is the creepiness that they’re neighbors and you know them? Then again, back to that thing about them obviously being exhibitionists if they’re letting the neighborhood know what’s going down – literally.
The problem with this is you can’t control what gets somebody going. There are times we get turned on by or about something that we know we shouldn’t but we do and, as they say, it is what it is.
I wonder if he’s using this to light his fire and then coming at you to help put it out. Is that the issue? Someone else is pouring the gas on it and he wants you to light his match, feel the heat and finish the blast?
Without you elaborating on the “weird” aspect of it, I can only speculate what your hangup is. Now, if he’s wiring up the house with listening devices so he doesn’t miss a minute of the next-door action, well, you missed out that critical detail. Otherwise, let him get his rocks off. If he’s not spying or invading their privacy, so be it. If they don’t want to be heard, they can keep it down – so to speak. (Most of us had teen years when we had to say, “Shh, my parents are home.” We know how to control our volume.)