I don't mind my partner's laugh when we're alone together. But when we're with friends or out in public it almost seems exaggerated and fake -- not to mention crazy loud. It's pretty embarrassing when we're around others. What should I do?
I like dressing up and looking good but my partner recently changed his style and is shopping at thrift stores. I think it's gross and not on my level anymore. I've mocked his wardrobe but he takes it as a joke but I'm actually serious. It's to the point if he's wearing used clothes I don't want to be seen with him. Is it a me problem or a him problem?
When my relationship started, my partner had one piercing and one tattoo. Over the years he's gotten more and more of each. Now he's got so many that it's becoming gross. How do I get him to stop?
My partner and I just got back from our first vacation together. I was excited about us getting away and spending time alone. The problem is that he insisted on broadcasting everything on social media. From the airport to the airplane to the hotel to each plate of food to every activity on the trip, he seemed more focused on capturing the content for an audience rather than living in the moment with me. It was annoying and I felt disrespected. How do I put my foot down so it doesn't happen again? Because at this point I don't want to travel with him anymore.
My partner recently noticed that I still follow my ex on social media. He insists that I unfollow but I don't see it to be an issue. Should I be more concerned that he's trying to control me or is it jealousy that could end up being toxic to the relationship?
A childhood friend is getting married. We were close going through school but later in life he became better friends with my older brothers because they share the same interests. I've lost touch with him but he still hangs out with my brothers and he comes to our family get togethers. My brothers and parents are invited to his wedding but I'm not. Should I say something to my former friend?
My partner has an interest in certain kinds of porn that doesn't reflect our sex life. I'm concerned he's doing it with someone else since it's not happening in our bedroom.
I was on a date, having dinner at a restaurant and our server was my ex. I wouldn't make eye contact and kept conversation to a minimum. At the end of the meal I didn't want to tip but my date insisted we do. It caused some awkwardness between us after. Who is right in this situation?
I had a first date with someone. It was going great. We spontaneously decided to go to a movie after hanging out for a bit. We went, it was cool to be holding hands and kind of get cuddled up. But during the movie, he wouldn't stop talking. And he kept asking questions about it. Things like, "why is he doing that?" and "why would she say that?" as if I had something to do with the script. I don't know if he's trying to play dumb and wanted things explained to him or if he just feels the conversation should continue when we're watching something together. A couple of times I pretended like I didn't hear him and was just really into the movie. I think he took the hint because there were longer stretches where he didn't say anything but I think he's just one of those talk-for-the-sake-of-talking people, like he can't have a moment of silence and feels the need to have some kind of chatter to break up the quiet. Should I say something?
My partner is well endowed and he insists on wearing tight pants even when we go to formal events. I don't think it's meant to show off his manhood but that's ultimately what ends up happening. Of course I'm proud of his blessed region but it's also embarrassing when it's on display.
I met someone at a relative's funeral. He added me on Facebook after. Turns out he dated my cousin (whose dad just died -- my uncle). I'm conflicted about where, if anywhere, this could go.
Normally my partner smells great but there are times when he doesn't think to wear deodorant and has a noticeable odor. Like, noticeable. Really noticeable. It's a turnoff but how do I tell him he smells without hurting his feelings?
My partner likes walking around the house naked and wants me to join in. I don't like the idea because we have dogs and their heads come right up to our... you know. It's not that they do anything but I just don't want my bits dangling in their faces. I don't want his doing that either. What's the compromise?
My partner has taken up cooking but he's not good at it. I pretend that I like his food but I really don't. Do I keep lying or do I tell him it sucks?
My mom is too opinionated about my relationship. She's always asking questions and sticking her nose in. I'm starting to lie because I don't feel like telling her everything she wants to know. I'm avoiding her calls and pretending I don't get her texts. I'm tempted to cut her off entirely. What should I do?
My partner wants to combine our bank account/money but I make significantly more than him. Should I set ground rules about how he can spend?
My partner is subscribing to the "sovereign citizen" mindset where rules and laws don't apply to him. He's not a bad guy (not committing crimes) but the whole philosophy is that rules don't apply to him so he believes that cops would have no right to arrest him for anything or that if he's charged with something he can beat it because he's his own citizen. I have this feeling he'll start to challenge authority to make his point if he ever comes up against law enforcement or someone. What should I do?
I'm totally disgusted by people who take off their shoes on a plane -- especially when it's someone beside me. I'm tempted to say something but worry it'll lead to a confrontation. How do I get my point across without making it an issue and viral moment for people with their phones?
I just started my relationship and only recently heard about his porn past. I'm not thrilled about it but I think I love him. How do I get over this?
My partner wants us to know each other's phone-unlock code in case there's an emergency and we need to get into each other's device. I'm suspect about his motive but he makes a compelling point. We've been together for three months and it seems like a trusting relationship. I think this early in a relationship it's a little much to feel like we're next of kin or something already. We're definitely not in the place where he's my emergency contact.
My partner loves kids and watching shows about parenting or stuff with babies. Whether it's funny videos of babies or old nanny reality shows from the 2000s. He will watch anything with little kids and find it adorable. He likes the squealing giggle a baby does when it claps and is excited. The sound of a baby crying drives me insane. I can't handle it. The good thing is he's not pressuring me to have kids but our viewing habits couldn't be any different. Seriously, I'll hear him watching something (even if it's just a diaper commercial and a baby cries) and I instantly tense up. Do I buy him headphones to listen in silence or what?
I'm single and my mom keeps trying to set me up with people. She doesn't know my type and she's picking people who aren't even close to my style. How do I tell her to piss off?
I'm in a new relationship and it seems like my partner is constantly fishing for compliments. When he makes food, he's always asking how it is. When we go out, he asks if I like his outfit. The first couple of times it seemed like he genuinely wondered how I felt but I've caught on that it's his way of forcing me to compliment or say nice things. It's kind of driving me insane already because it's coming across as needy.
I'm in a newer relationship but my partner is still posting thirst traps. It's bothering me that he still seemingly wants attention from his adoring fans. Is it wrong to ask him to change his needy habit on social media?
